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(SOMBER MUSIC PLAYING)
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(BIRDS CHIRPING)
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WOMAN: (OVER PA) There will be no
phone call sign outs.
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There'll be no late note takers,
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so if you have your notes...
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-This one?
-Mm-hmm.
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(GIRLS WHISPER)
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My name is Deryn,
and I'm in the 11th grade.
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I just don't like school,
like normal teenagers do.
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(SCHOOL BELL BUZZES)
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(STUDENTS CHATTER FAINTLY)
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I just kind of like,
keep to myself, do my work.
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I'm kind of like a quiet person.
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(SOMBER MUSIC CONTINUES)
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(COWS MOO)
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(TRACTOR ENGINE WHIRS)
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(WIND CHIMES TINKLING)
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Can you come get my legs?
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I'm trying to secure them now.
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Gotta hike my skirt up.
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-Can you do me a favor?
-Hmm?
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Put your hands inside here,
spread it apart.
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Yep, both hands in, spread.
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Squeeze.
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Try to push over.
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This way?
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I'm trying my best.
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-It's all right.
-DERYN: It's not working that well.
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It hurts.
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DERYN: You want me to put my foot down?
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CHAZ: Yeah.
DERYN: This way?
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Yep, just like that.
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Got it?
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(UPLIFTING ORCHESTRAL MUSIC PLAYING)
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REPORTER: 65 million people that
are taking care of an ill, disabled,
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elderly loved one, and it is
crushing the American family.
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NEWS ANCHOR: Caregiving can be
a huge expense for loved ones.
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Caregivers for veterans,
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who have given up their regular lives
to those hurt
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in our country's recent wars.
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NEWS ANCHOR: Children hear
the last school bell of the day
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and know their biggest challenge
awaits at home.
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(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
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Ryan, you got ready? No.
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What did you make, taters?
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-Ouch, pizza.
-Tacos?
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That's our Italiano.
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Come here, Chutz.
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All right, come here, Bill.
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Come on, you know where to go.
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DERYN: I get called "the Mom" a lot
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because I'm always on top of things,
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and I always have extra stuff.
I'm like, "You need to wear sunscreen."
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"You need to do this, this, and this."
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You're ready to go to the store?
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Not Chu Chu, you, Chu Chu, you stay.
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-You stay here, babe.
-Oh, come here, Chu Chu.
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Come here, Ginger. You wanna go?
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-Come on, Chutz.
-Okay, she's going now.
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-Come on, Chutz.
-She can't...
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Oh, God, she's... (LAUGHS)
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-Go get them, go get them.
-Come on, Chu Chu, let's go in the car.
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-CHAZ: Come on.
-Yes.
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-Oh.
-Come on.
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(CHU CHU BARKING)
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Come on.
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(CAR ENGINE STARTS)
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DERYN: Just little things like,
"Hey, move that box,"
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or, "Hey, make sure he doesn't
hit his elbow on the door,"
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or, "Hey, make sure to get his bottle,
make sure
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"it's like not too high up or anything."
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It's just like little things
that are obviously not that hard.
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People aren't used to it.
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They'll stand so many feet away,
and then every time he moves,
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they'll move even further.
And it's really funny,
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we make it like a game.
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Kids will come up to him,
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and they'll be like,
"How'd you lose your legs?"
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And he's like,
"Well, I didn't eat my broccoli.
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"So make sure to eat your broccoli
so you don't lose your legs."
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(GRUNTS)
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-Thanks, pal.
-You're welcome.
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Watch your chair, careful.
Right, there it is.
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Hmm. That tickles.
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Okay, give me the legs.
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He's just my dad, like, it's normal.
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I don't care what people say. He's cool.
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JENNA: I was at work
when my dad called me
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and told me that they were going
to have to take his leg.
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We didn't know if he was gonna make it.
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He was at extremely high risk
of having a heart attack.
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So I had to leave work,
and basically, potentially,
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just go say goodbye to my dad.
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My dad's dad died when he was 12.
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I couldn't imagine... (SNIFFLES)
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being that young
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and not having him there.
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BILL: For 47 years,
I've had a right foot,
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and been able to drive a truck.
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Now, I can't do that.
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They put me on disability.
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Jenna welcomed it with open arms
and said,
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"Okay, Dad, I'll do the best
I can to help you out."
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She makes all my doctor's appointments.
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Making sure he has medicine.
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She knows more of what
medicines I take than I do.
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Nineteen different pills
along with four shots of insulin daily.
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I gotta set this thing,
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so it's ready for tomorrow.
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Give you all of them.
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Let me see your hand. None? Okay.
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I know I'm getting to a point in my life,
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where I'm gonna be finishing school,
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and then I'm gonna have to
really start in my career.
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I know I want a family,
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but I definitely don't want
to rush anything.
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Because this is what I was supposed to do.
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My dad took care of me my first 18 years.
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The least I could do is
step down on the step
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and let him put his hand on my shoulder,
you know.
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(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
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INTERVIEWER: How strong is your dad?
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RHIANNA: Really strong...
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like this! (GRUNTS)
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-Do you want this?
-Yeah.
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He looks different than he used to do,
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but I still love him.
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He's there for me, and he makes me happy.
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ROCIO: Thank you.
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-Cheers, guys.
-ROCIO: Thank you.
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(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
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Physically, Brian can't eat.
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Whatever he craves, I eat.
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Well, no, I don't like
your tongue tacos, lengua,
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that I won't eat.
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(BRIAN SPEAKS SOFTLY)
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(LAUGHING) No, I didn't say that.
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But he wants the donut,
what does he go do?
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He buys me my donut
and then he gets whatever he wants to eat.
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My weight goes up and down
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depending on what he's craving.
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(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
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Brian, your medicine.
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He worked at a call center.
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He gave me his number.
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Well, he gave his number
to his friend to give to me
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after he walked out.
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But his friend decided to give it to me
while he was still there.
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So he was shy.
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He was getting deployed.
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So we basically interacted
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by e-mails, letters, phone calls.
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That was basically our courtship.
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As soon as he got back,
we got together, we got engaged.
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I got pregnant, we got married.
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Then Rhianna was born.
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Rhianna, she looks after him a lot.
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RHIANNA: I check on with him,
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making sure if he's okay.
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ROCIO: Occasionally,
he experiences people staring.
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The ugly stares.
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RHIANNA: I'd tell 'em to turn around.
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Turn around!
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Stop staring at my parents. Please!
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(BIRDS CHIRPING)
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(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
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CAMILLE: Is this it right here?
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This one?
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-I think it's this one.
-Yeah, it looks like it.
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Yeah, good, yeah.
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Hey, Dad, do you wanna do his pills now?
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I'm gonna start setting up this one.
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Just taking it out
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Okay, so this is acetaminophen.
How are you feeling
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as far as pain?
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-'Cause it says...
-No pain.
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"Take three tablets by mouth
every eight hours."
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Put it in, yeah.
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-Okay.
-(CAMILLE LAUGHS)
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I make sure my grandfather
is comfortable at all times.
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Not too hot, not too cold,
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almost like a little butler in a way.
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All right, here, I got your ears for you.
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Yeah.
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Go put them over there on the table.
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-Put 'em there.
-You want 'em over there?
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-Yeah, so I can put them in later.
-Okay.
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It's about the love and the care
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and you just have to make sure
that you're showing it.
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Hey, Pop Pop.
Pop Pop, it's time to wake up, all right?
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(ROB SR. MUMBLES)
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-Okay, there you go.
-(MUMBLES)
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Okay, good, how are you feeling?
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Good, feeling good.
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-Okay, come on.
-(GRUNTS)
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All right.
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Very good.
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-How'd you sleep?
-I slept good tonight,
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real good.
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All right, very good.
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In our family, the loved ones
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really had no other option
but have family take care of them.
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So it was kind of the norm
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on my father's side,
as well in my mother's side.
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But it really fell on the females
of the family.
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CAMILLE: My dad is always there
to make sure
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that everything's going well,
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that my grandfather is doing fine.
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Excellent, all right,
breakfast in half hour.
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Okay, real good.
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Okay, so take your time,
get ready, and we'll see you outside.
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He works a lot harder than it seems.
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Family is number one for him.
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He doesn't put anything else before that.
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I'd give you a high top fade,
but there's nothing high top on there.
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(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
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ROB JR.: My mother, she got diagnosed
with Alzheimer's in 2011.
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I never really expected to be
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a full-time caregiver
to my mother and father,
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and then try and juggle work,
and a family,
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a new family, new child.
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Um, so it was like a lot being
thrown on my shoulders at once.
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Don't forget to shut the door
whenever you're done, Dad.
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-Okay, very good.
-Oh.
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Let me step up here real quick.
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(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
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-There we go.
-Right.
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CAMILLE: Watch your knees.
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ROB SR.: Okay.
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CAMILLE: Do you recognize
any of these drills?
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ROB SR.: Yeah.
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Yeah, a lot of warmup stuff.
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Oh, yeah.
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Hopefully this season we do well,
you know.
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Yeah, all right.
Are you gonna come
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-to some of the games with me?
-Oh, yes.
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All right.
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We have always been kinda close.
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He just calls me his little one.
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We have this great relationship
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that's built on love of football
and each other.
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(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
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ROB JR.: There was a gentleman's agreement
at that time
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that no integrated teams
played Southern teams.
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And it was the Governor of Georgia
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who demanded that
Georgia Tech not play against Pitt.
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And so, there were riots
that were going on.
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(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
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COMMENTATOR: Grier takes
the hand off from Nimm.
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Breaks off a left tackle.
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Fights his way towards the sideline,
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and down to the Tech 28-yard line
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for a gain of 18 yards in the play!
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(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
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ROB JR.: Nice catch, Pop Pop.
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-All right, ready?
-Ready.
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-Okay.
-Okay.
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ROB JR.:
Camille, she's 15, about to be 16.
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She's very busy,
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you know, she's a teenager.
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She has friends, and parties to go to,
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and activities,
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and I understand her life is busy,
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but I really appreciate her
taking the time to help Dad.
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It's important for her to see
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just the natural progression
of what families have to go through.
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(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
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(BIRDS CHIRPING)
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(CHICKENS CLUCKING)
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KAMAILE: Oh, Baba, how is it?
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-Okay.
-What're you up to?
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Where's the animals? Rusty.
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I'm Kamaile Kapanui.
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I'm 26 years old,
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and it's getting kinda crazy with Grandpa
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just 'cause he's forgetful.
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In his world, things are going
a little bit differently.
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-Okay.
-Okay, I'll take him outside.
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He's not allowed in here.
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(GOAT BLEATS)
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(KAMAILE AND BOBBY LAUGH)
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Hello.
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I try not to leave him at home alone
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for more than an hour.
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Say goodbye.
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KAMAILE: So if I'm not working,
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I'm usually hanging out here.
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He keeps things kind of tidy,
which is nice.
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A little bit of help is nice.
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Hi, Kaliko. Hi, Kaliko.
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Is that green onion?
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Yeah, I gotta separate those
so it grows better.
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Oh...
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'Sup, Kamaile?
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-What's up?
-Grab a shovel.
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You're the gardener, not me.
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KALEO: I'm 18, I just graduated
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from Waimea High School this past year,
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and I'm a college student.
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I got a two-year scholarship,
so we'll see how that goes.
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I was full-time, but I cut some classes
so I could work.
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Maybe when all this is done,
probably go up to the mainland.
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Here are the AM pills
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that he takes as soon as he wakes up.
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Here, Papa, some vitamins.
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Oh.
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KALEO: So my grandpa
went all over Japan, Korea.
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He used to drive those big trucks
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with all the soldiers in the back.
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He was the gunman, working the artillery.
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Yeah, he just tells me everywhere he went.
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I sleep right next to my grandpa
just to watch him,
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just to make sure he's all good.
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Sometimes he wake up
three o'clock in the morning,
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and he doesn't go back to sleep
until 6:00.
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So I'm up all night trying
to get him to go back to sleep.
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I was already watching him
before he got dementia.
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Everybody knows
I take care of my grandpa.
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My friends, what's it called?
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Spamming my phone,
"Oh, when you're gonna come?
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"When you're gonna come?"
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Maybe not tonight.
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Maybe, who knows?
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Depending on my grandpa,
you know what I mean?
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(NOSTALGIC MUSIC PLAYING)
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WOMAN: You spray, I clean?
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(CHUCKLES)
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ROCIO: I can sense when he's not well.
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It's not easy caring for somebody
who is going through a lot of changes
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physically, mentally.
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They don't want us to suffer with them,
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so they do push us away.
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He started having issues with the tonsils.
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He was going back to the dentist
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and his regular doctor,
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and they just kept on
giving him antibiotics.
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I mean, it wouldn't go away.
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And then he started seeing
pieces of, I guess...
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-(SPEAKING SOFTLY)
-Tissue.
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You know, from the mouth
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that were falling.
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That was when we ended up
going to the VA.
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We got the diagnosis.
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Rhianna was months old.
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00:24:02,192 --> 00:24:06,864
It's a type of cancer
that not a guy his age would have.
348
00:24:08,156 --> 00:24:12,077
The doctor said it is service-related.
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NEWS ANCHOR: Veterans who served
in the Middle East,
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along with some private contractors
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are complaining of breathing problems
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associated with large areas
of burning garbage.
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NEWS REPORTER:
At some of the military bases
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throughout those regions,
waste materials were disposed of
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in so-called burn pits.
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00:24:32,681 --> 00:24:35,142
Breathing fumes from those fires
appears to have damaged
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the health of countless veterans.
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INTERVIEWER:
What were some of the things
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you remember seeing
that were being thrown in
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before you would set the flame?
361
00:24:49,072 --> 00:24:50,115
Um...
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ROCIO: Body parts, Styrofoam,
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stuff that you shouldn't be burning up.
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00:25:04,421 --> 00:25:06,006
INTERVIEWER:
And then what do you put on top?
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00:25:08,091 --> 00:25:10,052
Diesel fuel to light it up.
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00:25:14,848 --> 00:25:16,016
INTERVIEWER: Masks?
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00:25:28,153 --> 00:25:30,906
ROCIO: His health has
gone up and down.
368
00:25:30,989 --> 00:25:35,619
It's been one diagnosis
after another diagnosis.
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And then just certain things
that we had never expected
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00:25:40,791 --> 00:25:42,125
for us to go through.
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00:25:46,964 --> 00:25:49,925
When he was taking a shower,
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and, um, he realized his hair...
(VOICE BREAKS)
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And he realized his
hair was falling,
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00:26:03,522 --> 00:26:04,940
to hear him cry,
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00:26:08,485 --> 00:26:12,197
I think that was the hardest for me
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00:26:13,866 --> 00:26:15,325
'cause he's strong,
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00:26:15,409 --> 00:26:19,496
and just to see him break...
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00:26:21,999 --> 00:26:23,166
broke me.
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00:26:27,462 --> 00:26:29,715
I offered to cut my hair, but...
(SNIFFLES)
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00:26:32,342 --> 00:26:33,510
...he's like, "No."
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00:26:39,516 --> 00:26:41,935
I let him know, you know, "We're with you,
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00:26:44,146 --> 00:26:45,856
"and we're not going anywhere."
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00:26:46,273 --> 00:26:48,275
(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
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00:26:57,701 --> 00:26:59,620
Rhianna, she's very strong,
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00:26:59,703 --> 00:27:02,623
and she's always defending him,
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00:27:02,706 --> 00:27:04,082
looking after him.
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00:27:04,166 --> 00:27:08,378
She doesn't show her weak side
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00:27:08,462 --> 00:27:10,297
regardless of the situation.
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00:27:12,216 --> 00:27:14,885
RHIANNA: Oh, it's hard for people
to understand him.
390
00:27:15,219 --> 00:27:16,803
When he's trying to say something,
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00:27:16,887 --> 00:27:19,056
they're like, "I can't hear you,
392
00:27:19,139 --> 00:27:20,557
"Say that one more time."
393
00:27:20,641 --> 00:27:22,976
And then they said that thing
what he's actually saying,
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00:27:23,060 --> 00:27:24,895
they say, "Oh, I get it now."
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00:27:25,979 --> 00:27:28,190
Are you gonna go?
You're gonna go with us?
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00:27:28,273 --> 00:27:30,692
Yes, okay, okay.
397
00:27:30,776 --> 00:27:32,736
It's time to go to school, let's go.
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00:27:39,243 --> 00:27:42,746
ROCIO: She has ADHD,
and she is on the spectrum.
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00:27:43,914 --> 00:27:47,751
Because of her disability,
and her learning and speech,
400
00:27:47,835 --> 00:27:51,880
kids tend to make fun of her
and call her names.
401
00:27:54,383 --> 00:27:56,343
The sweater, right now, okay.
402
00:27:56,426 --> 00:27:58,095
And there was a couple of occasions
403
00:27:58,178 --> 00:28:01,849
where we both witnessed
some of the bullying,
404
00:28:03,642 --> 00:28:06,270
and we would bring it up
to the attention of the principal,
405
00:28:06,353 --> 00:28:07,646
and they would like, "Oh, well,
406
00:28:07,729 --> 00:28:09,690
"I need to get the story
from the other student."
407
00:28:09,773 --> 00:28:11,400
I'm like, "What are you talking about?"
408
00:28:11,483 --> 00:28:13,610
"I just saw how it happened."
409
00:28:22,327 --> 00:28:24,079
Rhianna, time to go to bed.
410
00:28:24,955 --> 00:28:26,957
(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
411
00:28:27,583 --> 00:28:32,754
I feel like because of everything,
412
00:28:32,838 --> 00:28:34,339
we've neglected her.
413
00:28:37,134 --> 00:28:39,136
Not on purpose of course,
414
00:28:39,219 --> 00:28:42,764
but because, you know,
I've had to stay in the hospital
415
00:28:42,848 --> 00:28:44,516
to take care of him.
416
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:51,523
(KISSES)
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00:28:52,149 --> 00:28:53,692
-Go to sleep now.
-RHIANNA: Okay.
418
00:28:53,775 --> 00:28:55,068
-Sweet dreams.
-RHIANNA: Okay.
419
00:28:55,152 --> 00:28:59,114
ROCIO: Those were her years
of her development.
420
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:14,922
(MARCHING BAND MUSIC PLAYING)
421
00:29:18,133 --> 00:29:20,385
Want a program?
Do y'all want the program?
422
00:29:21,011 --> 00:29:22,346
(CROWD CHEERING)
423
00:29:27,267 --> 00:29:29,937
ANNOUNCER: (ON SPEAKERS)
Welcome to Warren County High School,
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00:29:30,020 --> 00:29:32,022
home of the Pioneers.
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00:29:32,105 --> 00:29:34,107
(MARCHING BAND MUSIC PLAYING)
426
00:29:35,692 --> 00:29:37,027
(CROWD CHEERING)
427
00:29:51,500 --> 00:29:53,210
JESSICA: A lot of times
people can see the veteran,
428
00:29:53,293 --> 00:29:54,962
they can see the wounds,
429
00:29:55,045 --> 00:29:56,380
and they think they can understand.
430
00:29:56,463 --> 00:29:58,757
But they're so focused on the veteran,
they don't think about who else
431
00:29:58,841 --> 00:30:00,968
is affected by the veteran's wounds.
432
00:30:01,051 --> 00:30:02,219
(WHISTLE BLOWS)
433
00:30:02,970 --> 00:30:05,639
(CHEERLEADERS CHANT INDISTINCTLY)
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00:30:18,485 --> 00:30:21,530
JESSICA: After Chaz got hurt,
it was a whole new way of life.
435
00:30:23,657 --> 00:30:26,743
CHAZ: I was a staff sergeant
in the US Army infantry.
436
00:30:27,828 --> 00:30:29,830
I was in Kosovo, Iraq and Afghanistan.
437
00:30:29,913 --> 00:30:31,582
We're right here currently.
438
00:30:31,665 --> 00:30:34,042
When you have a task and a purpose,
439
00:30:34,126 --> 00:30:36,670
it's 100%, 200% go.
440
00:30:42,968 --> 00:30:44,011
...easy.
441
00:30:44,094 --> 00:30:45,804
(INDISTINCT RADIO CHATTER)
442
00:30:45,888 --> 00:30:47,723
All right, they're gonna pass through us,
so, uh...
443
00:30:49,933 --> 00:30:51,602
(EXPLOSION)
444
00:30:51,685 --> 00:30:53,353
(SOLDIERS CLAMORING)
445
00:31:04,615 --> 00:31:05,782
Call security!
446
00:31:06,700 --> 00:31:08,368
(INDISTINCT SHOUTING)
447
00:31:10,454 --> 00:31:11,830
-Let's go.
-Hurry up, Doc!
448
00:31:12,456 --> 00:31:13,790
JESSICA: They told me he was dead.
449
00:31:14,458 --> 00:31:16,627
I mean, they literally told me
he was dead.
450
00:31:16,710 --> 00:31:18,795
So I was at the absolute bottom.
451
00:31:21,215 --> 00:31:23,383
You know, when we found out
his brain was okay,
452
00:31:23,467 --> 00:31:24,635
everything was good.
453
00:31:25,135 --> 00:31:27,638
I looked at Deryn and I said,
"Dad's gonna come home."
454
00:31:28,180 --> 00:31:30,224
And she goes,
"There's something wrong with his legs."
455
00:31:30,307 --> 00:31:31,808
And I said, "Yeah, they're gone."
456
00:31:31,892 --> 00:31:32,935
And she's like, "What do you mean?"
457
00:31:33,018 --> 00:31:37,231
And I said, "Your dad stepped on a bomb,
big explosion."
458
00:31:40,526 --> 00:31:43,153
He was so catastrophically wounded,
459
00:31:43,237 --> 00:31:45,405
there was no way he could be a dad.
460
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,534
So we didn't bring the girls
to even see him until March,
461
00:31:48,617 --> 00:31:50,118
when he was feeling better.
462
00:31:57,334 --> 00:31:59,670
DERYN: And as soon as I saw him,
and I was like, "Oh, it's just Dad."
463
00:32:06,593 --> 00:32:10,264
A few days after that,
I was like, "I wanna help him."
464
00:32:13,976 --> 00:32:15,227
I'm gonna be his nurse,
465
00:32:15,310 --> 00:32:17,104
and I'm gonna work in this hospital,
466
00:32:17,187 --> 00:32:18,522
and I'm gonna help everybody.
467
00:32:23,986 --> 00:32:26,446
And so, I would change his IVs and stuff.
468
00:32:34,746 --> 00:32:35,956
Later on down the road,
469
00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:37,916
he had a flesh-eating bacteria
in his back,
470
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,918
and I was kinda freaking out
471
00:32:40,002 --> 00:32:41,587
because he was getting really sick.
472
00:32:42,421 --> 00:32:44,840
And I was like,
"Oh, my God, what's gonna happen?"
473
00:32:47,718 --> 00:32:51,096
He had this open wound,
I had to put this jelly stuff.
474
00:33:00,981 --> 00:33:04,318
And then he got taken care of,
and I was like, "He's invincible."
475
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,988
Nothing's gonna happen anymore.
476
00:33:09,323 --> 00:33:11,325
(HOPEFUL MUSIC PLAYING)
477
00:33:27,758 --> 00:33:29,635
JESSICA: Just because
you bring these guys home
478
00:33:29,718 --> 00:33:31,512
doesn't mean we're done.
479
00:33:34,014 --> 00:33:35,933
I said, "I understand you're angry.
480
00:33:36,475 --> 00:33:38,852
"I don't know what you saw,
but I can understand your anger,
481
00:33:38,936 --> 00:33:40,562
"so you have two paths.
482
00:33:40,646 --> 00:33:43,023
"We can work this out together,
483
00:33:43,106 --> 00:33:44,942
"or you can work it out on your own."
484
00:33:45,025 --> 00:33:48,111
And he said that that was the moment
he was like, "Oh."
485
00:33:49,154 --> 00:33:50,906
And I just said, "I'm here.
486
00:33:52,491 --> 00:33:54,618
"But you're not gonna
take this out on us."
487
00:33:58,956 --> 00:34:01,625
Back then,
PTSD didn't even have a name yet.
488
00:34:03,418 --> 00:34:04,461
CHAZ: There are some instances
489
00:34:04,545 --> 00:34:08,215
where a traumatic event
can stunt you for a time period.
490
00:34:08,297 --> 00:34:11,969
But there's a point where you need to
kick yourself in the butt and move out.
491
00:34:20,768 --> 00:34:23,188
There are things out there
that the VA provides,
492
00:34:23,272 --> 00:34:24,398
but when it comes down to it,
493
00:34:24,481 --> 00:34:26,817
when you're back home with your family,
494
00:34:26,900 --> 00:34:29,402
you're left up to your own
to fend for yourself.
495
00:34:35,534 --> 00:34:37,202
(BIRDS CHIRPING)
496
00:34:41,998 --> 00:34:43,583
DERYN: You can use me
as your human walking stick.
497
00:34:43,667 --> 00:34:44,751
-CHAZ: Yeah.
-Oh, my God.
498
00:34:44,835 --> 00:34:46,003
-CHAZ: Child.
-(LAUGHING)
499
00:34:46,085 --> 00:34:47,545
-(GRUNTS)
-Hello.
500
00:34:47,629 --> 00:34:49,422
-Yep.
-It's our family portrait, we just...
501
00:34:49,505 --> 00:34:50,591
Yeah, we just...
502
00:34:51,466 --> 00:34:52,592
Welcome to the Allen family.
503
00:34:52,676 --> 00:34:55,344
Hi, hi, welcome to Chili's.
504
00:34:56,889 --> 00:34:58,765
(LAUGHS)
505
00:34:58,849 --> 00:35:03,270
It's fun because like,
you're with that person,
506
00:35:03,353 --> 00:35:04,605
and then you're helping them,
507
00:35:04,688 --> 00:35:06,857
and then when they're happy,
you're happy.
508
00:35:07,441 --> 00:35:09,860
He does kind of rely on me in a...
509
00:35:10,777 --> 00:35:12,863
Not in a bad way, obviously.
510
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,075
But I'm always making sure he's okay,
511
00:35:17,159 --> 00:35:20,078
and that he's taken care of,
512
00:35:20,162 --> 00:35:23,207
and that he's always happy. (SOBS)
513
00:35:25,125 --> 00:35:27,127
-(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
-(NURSE SPEAKING INDISTINCTLY)
514
00:35:33,717 --> 00:35:34,968
WOMAN: Bye, Chaz.
MAN: Bye, Chaz.
515
00:35:35,052 --> 00:35:36,720
-CHAZ: Thanks.
-Have a great weekend. Thank you, guys.
516
00:35:36,803 --> 00:35:37,804
All right, I'm off.
517
00:35:37,888 --> 00:35:39,306
JESSICA: When you're
in the middle of crisis,
518
00:35:39,389 --> 00:35:41,683
you're looking for anything
you can control.
519
00:35:42,142 --> 00:35:43,310
What can you control?
520
00:35:43,393 --> 00:35:44,561
For me, it was money,
521
00:35:44,645 --> 00:35:45,896
'cause I'm really good with money.
522
00:35:48,232 --> 00:35:50,901
For veterans, the financial situation
is so complex,
523
00:35:51,860 --> 00:35:55,364
because you have to deal
with, VA, DoD, IRS.
524
00:35:55,447 --> 00:35:57,491
And the information was not in one place.
525
00:36:01,537 --> 00:36:05,040
Right now, we are dependent
on Chaz's stipends.
526
00:36:05,123 --> 00:36:07,042
If he dies tomorrow, they're gone.
527
00:36:07,125 --> 00:36:10,212
They're gone, zero.
That's it, our funding is gone.
528
00:36:14,967 --> 00:36:17,803
Medical bills are usually
the top reason for bankruptcy.
529
00:36:17,886 --> 00:36:21,098
Bankruptcy and financial issues
are the top reasons for suicide,
530
00:36:21,181 --> 00:36:24,017
for domestic violence, for divorce.
531
00:36:24,101 --> 00:36:26,812
I mean, finances play more into your life
532
00:36:26,895 --> 00:36:29,231
than what we really give it credit for.
533
00:36:30,649 --> 00:36:32,317
(BIRDS CHIRPING)
534
00:36:36,446 --> 00:36:39,992
This is what I do. Just start a pile,
535
00:36:40,075 --> 00:36:41,702
and start going through it.
536
00:36:41,785 --> 00:36:43,704
This is bank, this is bills.
537
00:36:43,787 --> 00:36:44,955
This is all school.
538
00:36:56,008 --> 00:36:59,261
This is probably a medical bill
that I don't have money for.
539
00:37:08,478 --> 00:37:10,314
My dad asks me a lot when I come home,
540
00:37:10,397 --> 00:37:13,233
how come I just kinda sit in here
and shut the door.
541
00:37:13,317 --> 00:37:15,402
And I'm like, "'Cause that's my privacy,
542
00:37:15,485 --> 00:37:17,529
"and this is my peace." (CHUCKLES)
543
00:37:17,613 --> 00:37:19,823
Something I didn't have before, you know.
544
00:37:23,452 --> 00:37:27,372
BILL: After the Navy.
I went in as a truck driver.
545
00:37:29,833 --> 00:37:31,210
I love driving truck.
546
00:37:31,585 --> 00:37:34,421
You know, I didn't make super great money,
547
00:37:34,505 --> 00:37:35,756
but I made good enough money
548
00:37:35,839 --> 00:37:37,633
that I could support my family.
549
00:37:38,842 --> 00:37:40,594
You took insulin and what else?
550
00:37:40,677 --> 00:37:43,138
Did you take pills, any pills?
551
00:37:43,222 --> 00:37:44,640
BILL: Nope, not yet.
552
00:37:46,850 --> 00:37:48,894
JENNA: My dad had a stroke.
553
00:37:48,977 --> 00:37:50,854
He was in the hospital
for about four months.
554
00:37:53,190 --> 00:37:55,275
BILL: I couldn't drive truck anymore.
555
00:37:56,109 --> 00:37:57,653
And then I lost my job.
556
00:38:00,531 --> 00:38:03,033
Things weren't so great, that's for sure.
557
00:38:05,619 --> 00:38:09,289
It was like snowball,
but a big one thrown fast.
558
00:38:11,208 --> 00:38:12,835
BILL: All right, I took my insulin,
559
00:38:12,918 --> 00:38:14,294
so you better hurry up with dinner.
560
00:38:14,378 --> 00:38:15,462
I'm trying.
561
00:38:16,380 --> 00:38:20,300
And I thought, "What am I gonna do
562
00:38:20,384 --> 00:38:22,386
"if my dad can't work anymore?
563
00:38:26,473 --> 00:38:28,225
BILL: I mean, we lost everything.
564
00:38:29,601 --> 00:38:31,353
We didn't even have furniture.
565
00:38:33,438 --> 00:38:36,525
We just barely squeezed by on food.
566
00:38:38,235 --> 00:38:39,403
And, uh...
567
00:38:41,864 --> 00:38:43,365
Yeah, we were homeless.
568
00:38:46,368 --> 00:38:50,247
I mean, I don't think that I felt
569
00:38:50,330 --> 00:38:52,416
as homeless as the girls did.
570
00:38:54,418 --> 00:38:57,588
My ex-wife couldn't handle it,
that's why she left.
571
00:38:59,590 --> 00:39:03,468
It was kinda demoralizing
for it to happen.
572
00:39:03,552 --> 00:39:06,930
But I had kids, you know,
I couldn't let them starve.
573
00:39:08,724 --> 00:39:10,809
JENNA: We'd start running low on money.
574
00:39:11,852 --> 00:39:13,854
BILL: We moved into a hotel.
575
00:39:14,313 --> 00:39:15,981
JENNA: Like, a really cheap hotel.
576
00:39:17,149 --> 00:39:20,986
When we would get to close
to the end of the month,
577
00:39:22,404 --> 00:39:25,574
we'd have to pack out, and then
we'd have to do it all over again.
578
00:39:28,035 --> 00:39:31,121
And we were going
to the food banks to get food.
579
00:39:36,251 --> 00:39:38,045
I guess the time that it really hit me
580
00:39:38,128 --> 00:39:42,007
was when we had our first
581
00:39:42,090 --> 00:39:46,762
home-cooked meal in the hotel.
582
00:39:49,223 --> 00:39:52,309
It was just three of us,
583
00:39:53,018 --> 00:39:54,770
and we had made, um,
584
00:39:56,605 --> 00:39:58,106
a pot of spaghetti,
585
00:39:58,190 --> 00:40:00,692
the same size as if we were still
586
00:40:00,776 --> 00:40:02,444
all five of us back at home.
587
00:40:08,116 --> 00:40:10,327
BILL: This is the hotel we were at.
588
00:40:10,410 --> 00:40:13,163
Me and my sister
would just share that bed.
589
00:40:16,166 --> 00:40:18,252
There's still red marks
590
00:40:18,335 --> 00:40:21,296
from when I dyed my hair (LAUGHING)
591
00:40:21,380 --> 00:40:23,757
-on the ground.
-BILL: Oh, my gosh.
592
00:40:23,841 --> 00:40:25,926
We lived out of laundry bags,
593
00:40:26,009 --> 00:40:27,886
and they'd be down here,
594
00:40:27,970 --> 00:40:29,555
and then I'd fold clothes,
595
00:40:29,638 --> 00:40:31,181
and then stack it up here.
596
00:40:31,807 --> 00:40:34,393
And then I also kept the dog food in here
597
00:40:34,476 --> 00:40:36,854
because our dog was also in here with us.
598
00:40:37,563 --> 00:40:42,067
Then this itty-bitty tiny
599
00:40:43,068 --> 00:40:44,736
-refrigerator.
-Refrigerator.
600
00:40:45,362 --> 00:40:48,156
JENNA: The only thing that you could
fit in it was
601
00:40:48,240 --> 00:40:49,741
a pint of milk.
602
00:40:50,617 --> 00:40:51,618
-Yup.
-Yup.
603
00:40:51,702 --> 00:40:52,953
JENNA: Two drawers.
604
00:41:00,836 --> 00:41:03,172
School's always been an escape for me.
605
00:41:05,799 --> 00:41:08,552
Hey. How's it going?
606
00:41:08,635 --> 00:41:09,720
Good, and you?
607
00:41:10,804 --> 00:41:12,055
It's going all right.
608
00:41:12,139 --> 00:41:15,225
Last fall, I took six classes,
609
00:41:15,309 --> 00:41:18,729
and then I worked 40 hours,
roughly, a week.
610
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:22,441
Did you say Jenna?
611
00:41:22,524 --> 00:41:23,567
-Yeah.
-Okay, cool.
612
00:41:25,569 --> 00:41:26,653
Hello.
613
00:41:27,696 --> 00:41:29,239
-How can I help you today?
-JENNA: Um...
614
00:41:29,573 --> 00:41:32,492
So I knew I had to do
some kind of paperwork.
615
00:41:32,576 --> 00:41:34,536
It needed... I don't know what it is,
616
00:41:34,620 --> 00:41:35,954
but I just wanted to get it taken care of.
617
00:41:36,038 --> 00:41:37,456
Yeah, so you have your ID there?
618
00:41:37,539 --> 00:41:42,336
There are times where,
you know, it's not perfect.
619
00:41:42,794 --> 00:41:44,421
I don't just take care of my dad,
620
00:41:44,505 --> 00:41:45,631
go to work, go to school,
621
00:41:45,714 --> 00:41:48,383
get good grades,
and everything's A-Okay.
622
00:41:50,928 --> 00:41:53,639
-2019 when I did my taxes.
-Yep.
623
00:41:53,722 --> 00:41:55,724
-I claimed head of household.
-(CELL PHONE RINGING)
624
00:41:55,807 --> 00:41:57,684
Give me one second. I'm sorry.
625
00:41:58,393 --> 00:42:00,771
Hello? Yes.
626
00:42:00,854 --> 00:42:02,523
(WOMAN SPEAKING
INDISTINCTLY ON PHONE)
627
00:42:02,606 --> 00:42:03,774
I'm doing all right.
628
00:42:07,277 --> 00:42:08,946
You know, being in school,
629
00:42:09,613 --> 00:42:13,700
trying to explain to your boss,
630
00:42:14,493 --> 00:42:16,203
I can't come in on Tuesday,
631
00:42:16,286 --> 00:42:19,039
the day that you scheduled me
because my dad has
632
00:42:19,122 --> 00:42:20,624
three other doctors' appointments,
633
00:42:20,707 --> 00:42:22,376
we only have one vehicle,
634
00:42:22,459 --> 00:42:25,546
and I'm the only way my dad can get there.
635
00:42:25,629 --> 00:42:28,465
I was running late, and Derek was like,
636
00:42:28,549 --> 00:42:32,010
"Don't worry about getting here so fast,
637
00:42:32,094 --> 00:42:33,178
"get here safely."
638
00:42:33,262 --> 00:42:36,014
And I've never had a job
that has been like that.
639
00:42:36,098 --> 00:42:37,850
So I really appreciate you guys
640
00:42:37,933 --> 00:42:40,102
being so understanding of everything.
641
00:42:44,356 --> 00:42:46,608
Okay, I'll be there,
I think, in the morning.
642
00:42:47,317 --> 00:42:49,236
I'm sorry, that was
my general manager calling.
643
00:42:49,319 --> 00:42:50,612
WOMAN: Okay, yep, that's okay.
644
00:42:50,696 --> 00:42:52,197
A hundred things at one time.
645
00:42:52,281 --> 00:42:53,574
I'm always doing a lot.
646
00:42:53,657 --> 00:42:54,992
-Yep, it's all right.
-So I really appreciate it.
647
00:42:55,075 --> 00:42:56,410
-Thank you.
-Yeah, have a good day.
648
00:43:09,214 --> 00:43:13,760
JENNA: Last semester,
when I got all those A's,
649
00:43:13,844 --> 00:43:18,098
it was a rough semester
for me to get to that.
650
00:43:18,182 --> 00:43:20,392
Being homeless, and going to school,
651
00:43:20,475 --> 00:43:21,643
trying to work...
652
00:43:22,186 --> 00:43:23,854
and then being pregnant...
653
00:43:28,317 --> 00:43:31,737
Not being able to bring a child
654
00:43:31,820 --> 00:43:33,488
into this world with a father.
655
00:43:34,198 --> 00:43:35,699
I never wanted to do that,
656
00:43:36,533 --> 00:43:38,869
but some of us are
more responsible than others.
657
00:43:41,205 --> 00:43:44,374
Having this child is just a bigger push,
658
00:43:44,917 --> 00:43:47,252
a lot more motivation.
659
00:43:48,587 --> 00:43:51,757
That's when you took me out
for my 21st birthday.
660
00:43:53,884 --> 00:43:55,719
Yeah, and there's your bottle of wine.
661
00:43:55,802 --> 00:43:57,554
(LAUGHING)
662
00:43:59,848 --> 00:44:01,934
My dad is my best friend.
663
00:44:03,769 --> 00:44:06,146
He just always pushes me to do better
664
00:44:06,230 --> 00:44:08,732
and do what's best for myself.
665
00:44:12,569 --> 00:44:14,780
You know, some people see my situation,
666
00:44:14,863 --> 00:44:18,242
and they're like absolutely baffled
as to how I do it.
667
00:44:19,743 --> 00:44:20,911
I want to do it.
668
00:44:32,214 --> 00:44:34,299
KAMAILE: Hi, everyone, good afternoon.
669
00:44:36,927 --> 00:44:38,095
MACHINE: Thank you.
670
00:44:40,681 --> 00:44:43,684
KAMAILE: I'm a deckhand
for Holo Holo Charters.
671
00:44:45,978 --> 00:44:49,273
I plan to double major in oceanography
672
00:44:49,356 --> 00:44:51,358
and some kind of atmospheric science.
673
00:44:52,192 --> 00:44:54,862
I'd love to get a job on a research boat.
674
00:44:56,113 --> 00:44:58,991
We're gonna take off everything
from the morning trip and then
675
00:44:59,074 --> 00:45:00,868
load up everything for the afternoon trip,
676
00:45:00,951 --> 00:45:03,662
and scrub the deck, and wipe down
the windows and the railings,
677
00:45:03,745 --> 00:45:05,372
clean the bathroom.
678
00:45:05,455 --> 00:45:06,498
These are the buckets
679
00:45:08,041 --> 00:45:09,877
that the seasick people get to use.
680
00:45:15,132 --> 00:45:18,302
I'm taking the semester off
to take care of Grandpa.
681
00:45:19,386 --> 00:45:21,305
It's just getting kinda crazy
682
00:45:21,388 --> 00:45:23,599
being in school, and working,
683
00:45:23,682 --> 00:45:25,809
and trying to be here with Grandpa, so...
684
00:45:32,441 --> 00:45:35,110
School will always be there,
Grandpa won't.
685
00:45:39,323 --> 00:45:42,534
Baba, do you wanna come tell them
686
00:45:42,618 --> 00:45:44,620
about all your fishing stuff over here?
687
00:45:44,703 --> 00:45:46,371
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
688
00:45:47,789 --> 00:45:49,750
KAMAILE: Is that a lobster trap
or crab trap?
689
00:45:49,833 --> 00:45:51,335
BOBBY: Lobster.
KAMAILE: Lobster trap.
690
00:45:51,418 --> 00:45:54,213
He was the first lifeguard
at Waimea Swimming Pool
691
00:45:54,296 --> 00:45:55,297
right down the street.
692
00:45:55,380 --> 00:45:57,382
He actually met my grandma
693
00:45:57,466 --> 00:45:59,468
'cause he was giving her surf lessons,
694
00:45:59,551 --> 00:46:03,889
and they were married for 52 years.
695
00:46:05,390 --> 00:46:06,558
He moves stuff around.
696
00:46:06,642 --> 00:46:08,519
So whenever he can't find something,
697
00:46:08,602 --> 00:46:11,021
sometimes he'll blame my grandma,
698
00:46:11,104 --> 00:46:13,398
like, "Your grandma just moves things
699
00:46:13,482 --> 00:46:15,526
"and doesn't tell me
where she's moving it to."
700
00:46:15,609 --> 00:46:18,946
I'm like, "Yeah."
701
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,575
She got diagnosed with brain cancer,
702
00:46:23,659 --> 00:46:24,868
and by then it was...
703
00:46:24,952 --> 00:46:27,287
She only had a few months left
after that, so...
704
00:46:28,872 --> 00:46:32,251
And that happened shortly
after my mom passed away.
705
00:46:34,503 --> 00:46:36,839
She took her own life.
706
00:46:38,298 --> 00:46:39,633
Came over from work and...
707
00:46:42,219 --> 00:46:43,262
found her.
708
00:46:45,931 --> 00:46:48,892
She hung herself on the tree
outside my bedroom window.
709
00:46:51,144 --> 00:46:53,480
That was about two and a half years ago.
710
00:46:54,398 --> 00:46:58,068
KALEO: My mom, she had bipolarism.
711
00:46:58,944 --> 00:47:01,822
It's like different mood swings.
712
00:47:01,905 --> 00:47:06,326
The doctor prescribed her these like,
pills or something to help her.
713
00:47:06,410 --> 00:47:07,828
It wasn't really helping her.
714
00:47:07,911 --> 00:47:10,622
It was more like
making her turn into like...
715
00:47:10,706 --> 00:47:13,083
She was sleeping all day, yeah.
716
00:47:13,166 --> 00:47:16,253
And then she just was just
all sad all the time.
717
00:47:17,588 --> 00:47:19,173
KAMAILE: My grandpa doesn't remember that
718
00:47:19,256 --> 00:47:21,925
she or my grandma passed away.
719
00:47:23,594 --> 00:47:25,220
And whenever he would ask about them,
720
00:47:25,304 --> 00:47:27,472
we would tell him what happened,
721
00:47:27,556 --> 00:47:29,516
but he would always, um...
722
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,394
To him, it would be like
he was hearing it for the first time.
723
00:47:38,567 --> 00:47:39,610
I'm okay.
724
00:47:39,693 --> 00:47:42,446
I feel like I've gotten over
the hard parts,
725
00:47:42,529 --> 00:47:46,867
but I still think of my mom
and my grandma every day.
726
00:47:48,410 --> 00:47:51,455
It's hard during times,
like when the hurricane
727
00:47:51,538 --> 00:47:53,373
was coming a few weeks ago,
728
00:47:53,457 --> 00:47:55,876
I've never really had to prep
for a hurricane like that before
729
00:47:55,959 --> 00:47:57,878
and the whole time I was just like,
730
00:47:57,961 --> 00:48:00,714
I wish my mom was here
or I wish my grandma was here
731
00:48:00,797 --> 00:48:03,258
to offer any kind of advice.
732
00:48:03,342 --> 00:48:07,763
And, yeah, just kind of think of them
733
00:48:07,846 --> 00:48:10,974
when I'd usually call them
734
00:48:11,058 --> 00:48:14,728
for some kind of help with anything.
735
00:48:18,774 --> 00:48:21,401
My grandpa's like
the last one that we have.
736
00:48:21,485 --> 00:48:24,988
So to lose him would be a lot.
737
00:48:30,536 --> 00:48:32,704
Do leaves change colors?
738
00:48:33,330 --> 00:48:34,414
Yes.
739
00:48:34,873 --> 00:48:37,084
Can a magnet pick up metal?
740
00:48:37,167 --> 00:48:38,168
Yes.
741
00:48:39,127 --> 00:48:41,588
Do skunks have an unpleasant smell?
742
00:48:41,672 --> 00:48:42,965
Yes.
743
00:48:44,675 --> 00:48:47,010
CAMILLE: We usually go through lists
744
00:48:47,094 --> 00:48:50,097
to help keep his mental ability
745
00:48:50,180 --> 00:48:52,599
and his response times up and quick,
746
00:48:52,683 --> 00:48:55,686
and making sure that he's still sharp.
747
00:48:55,769 --> 00:48:58,355
Do eyelashes protect your eyes?
748
00:48:58,438 --> 00:48:59,439
No.
749
00:48:59,523 --> 00:49:00,732
No?
750
00:49:00,816 --> 00:49:04,987
No? Yes. (CHUCKLES) Yes.
751
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,448
98% of the time, he's usually right.
752
00:49:08,532 --> 00:49:12,452
Last one, can you see
your shadow at night?
753
00:49:12,536 --> 00:49:13,871
No.
754
00:49:13,954 --> 00:49:15,289
-Good job.
-No.
755
00:49:15,998 --> 00:49:19,209
CAMILLE: He's starting to be
a little bit more forgetful.
756
00:49:20,377 --> 00:49:22,087
I do worry that
757
00:49:22,171 --> 00:49:26,216
it might get to a point
where it'll be too much for my dad.
758
00:49:31,638 --> 00:49:33,473
ROB JR.: Taking the extra time
to take care of Mom
759
00:49:33,557 --> 00:49:34,808
and taking care of Dad
760
00:49:35,976 --> 00:49:38,562
means that I can't be
at two places at one time.
761
00:49:40,314 --> 00:49:42,274
My wife asked me one time,
762
00:49:42,357 --> 00:49:44,151
"Why do you take care
of your parents so much?
763
00:49:44,234 --> 00:49:46,653
"Why do you spend so much time
taking care of your parents?"
764
00:49:47,362 --> 00:49:50,282
And I said, "They're my parents, one,
765
00:49:50,365 --> 00:49:51,575
"and I love them,
766
00:49:51,658 --> 00:49:53,410
"and they took care of me,
767
00:49:53,493 --> 00:49:54,828
"they raised me.
768
00:49:54,912 --> 00:49:56,580
"Now, that it's their time of need,
769
00:49:57,623 --> 00:49:59,249
"if I don't do it, who's gonna do it?"
770
00:50:02,336 --> 00:50:04,213
We started growing apart,
771
00:50:04,296 --> 00:50:06,089
started seeing my daughter less.
772
00:50:06,757 --> 00:50:09,301
CAMILLE: There would be times
where I would
773
00:50:09,384 --> 00:50:11,970
be going to these events,
774
00:50:12,054 --> 00:50:14,181
but he wouldn't be able to make it.
775
00:50:14,264 --> 00:50:15,933
And there would be a lot of times
776
00:50:16,016 --> 00:50:20,354
when I wouldn't see him for weeks on end.
777
00:50:22,606 --> 00:50:25,275
ROB JR.: And then one day,
on a school night,
778
00:50:25,359 --> 00:50:27,277
her and Camille, they just left.
779
00:50:31,281 --> 00:50:33,867
I was a 24/7 father to Camille.
780
00:50:33,951 --> 00:50:35,953
So not seeing her, man, that was hard.
781
00:50:42,626 --> 00:50:45,712
CAMILLE: I actually live with my mom
'cause my parents are divorced.
782
00:50:47,297 --> 00:50:50,634
We were definitely a lot closer
when I was a child.
783
00:50:51,343 --> 00:50:53,720
As I got older,
we kinda grew apart a little bit.
784
00:50:53,804 --> 00:50:55,305
I got closer with my mom.
785
00:50:55,389 --> 00:50:57,641
Our relationship became kinda strained,
786
00:50:58,725 --> 00:51:00,811
but we're trying to fix that
787
00:51:00,894 --> 00:51:02,646
and do a little bit better.
788
00:51:04,815 --> 00:51:06,483
(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
789
00:51:12,072 --> 00:51:13,740
(SQUAWKING)
790
00:51:15,492 --> 00:51:17,286
ROB JR.: In the summertime,
we'd come down here
791
00:51:17,369 --> 00:51:19,538
in Florida for a little R&R.
792
00:51:38,348 --> 00:51:40,017
(EXCLAIMING)
793
00:51:45,772 --> 00:51:47,482
CAMILLE: We have to do
your eye drop, okay?
794
00:51:47,566 --> 00:51:48,734
Okay.
795
00:51:52,112 --> 00:51:53,447
There you go.
796
00:51:53,864 --> 00:51:55,908
Do you wanna put your ears on?
797
00:51:55,991 --> 00:51:57,784
-ROB SR.: Yeah, yes.
-Okay.
798
00:51:58,952 --> 00:52:00,621
(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
799
00:52:07,836 --> 00:52:09,922
There you go, you know, be generous.
800
00:52:12,090 --> 00:52:15,135
Oh, you already got the fork,
thank you, thank you so much.
801
00:52:15,219 --> 00:52:17,679
I can't expect her to do everything
of what I do.
802
00:52:18,138 --> 00:52:19,139
Here you go.
803
00:52:19,223 --> 00:52:20,766
Alrighty, thank you.
804
00:52:20,849 --> 00:52:22,809
And I know she has friends and school,
805
00:52:22,893 --> 00:52:24,019
and so I'm asking her to,
806
00:52:24,102 --> 00:52:27,731
"Hey, I need you to come
and do these chores." (LAUGHS)
807
00:52:27,814 --> 00:52:29,483
Which she doesn't really wanna hear that.
808
00:52:31,693 --> 00:52:32,903
CAMILLE: How's your food, Pop Pop?
809
00:52:32,986 --> 00:52:34,571
ROB SR.: They're very good.
810
00:52:34,655 --> 00:52:36,198
Tastes good with the honey on it?
811
00:52:36,281 --> 00:52:38,242
Very good with the honey on it.
812
00:52:38,825 --> 00:52:39,993
CAMILLE: That's good.
813
00:52:42,579 --> 00:52:44,331
-Got it?
-Yeah.
814
00:52:47,584 --> 00:52:50,712
CAMILLE: I feel like it's made me
have to grow up a little bit
815
00:52:50,796 --> 00:52:52,172
faster than I should,
816
00:52:52,256 --> 00:52:53,882
but because I'm here,
817
00:52:53,966 --> 00:52:55,843
making those memories with my family
818
00:52:55,926 --> 00:52:57,761
instead of out with my friends,
819
00:52:58,428 --> 00:53:00,138
I feel like I'm gonna have those
820
00:53:00,222 --> 00:53:03,892
instead of missing, you know, one party.
821
00:53:04,601 --> 00:53:06,103
And so, I go to here.
822
00:53:06,186 --> 00:53:07,229
Okay.
823
00:53:07,312 --> 00:53:10,023
And then usually
my most recent picture pops up.
824
00:53:10,107 --> 00:53:12,818
-Uh-huh.
-So I'm just gonna edit that a little bit
825
00:53:12,901 --> 00:53:14,611
and put it right there.
826
00:53:19,157 --> 00:53:22,494
CAMILLE: I really do wanna try
and be here for him as much as possible,
827
00:53:22,578 --> 00:53:24,955
'cause I don't know
how much longer I have.
828
00:53:25,038 --> 00:53:28,458
So I wanna spend
as much time as possible with him.
829
00:53:31,044 --> 00:53:32,045
BILL: Oh, this way?
830
00:53:32,129 --> 00:53:35,174
Oh, I thought we're going
the other way. All right.
831
00:53:44,725 --> 00:53:46,059
Ring the bell.
832
00:53:46,518 --> 00:53:48,020
(BELL DINGS)
833
00:53:50,814 --> 00:53:53,442
It's been a while
since you guys were here.
834
00:53:54,151 --> 00:53:55,736
This is your file.
835
00:53:55,819 --> 00:53:57,446
-BILL: Mm-hmm.
-This is all the paperwork
836
00:53:57,529 --> 00:53:58,697
that we went through.
837
00:53:59,615 --> 00:54:02,534
We were able to work with you
and get you into a place, right?
838
00:54:02,618 --> 00:54:04,745
Very first page in your file,
839
00:54:04,828 --> 00:54:06,496
it's what we call the closure sheet.
840
00:54:07,497 --> 00:54:10,167
We have down here,
veteran obtained affordable housing.
841
00:54:10,250 --> 00:54:12,377
So in the course of about eight months,
842
00:54:12,461 --> 00:54:13,754
you went from, I'm assuming,
843
00:54:13,837 --> 00:54:16,256
-feeling what was almost your lowest.
-Hopeless, yep.
844
00:54:16,340 --> 00:54:17,799
Hopeless to now you feel
845
00:54:17,883 --> 00:54:19,343
like you have a really bright future.
846
00:54:20,427 --> 00:54:22,179
Oh yeah, yeah.
847
00:54:22,513 --> 00:54:25,807
Yeah, it took a little time,
but we got there.
848
00:54:28,894 --> 00:54:30,896
(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
849
00:54:32,105 --> 00:54:35,776
Jenna, she's really a good kid,
and she's a smart kid.
850
00:54:38,862 --> 00:54:41,949
I've been through a lot,
and I learned to live with it.
851
00:54:43,784 --> 00:54:47,454
But Jenna, she's definitely my hero.
852
00:54:50,290 --> 00:54:51,458
JENNA: I mean, high school,
853
00:54:51,542 --> 00:54:54,878
when we were going
to the food banks to get food,
854
00:54:54,962 --> 00:54:57,130
I would help and volunteer there.
855
00:54:57,214 --> 00:55:01,635
They would throw away
all of the baked goods
856
00:55:01,718 --> 00:55:03,929
that they couldn't give to families.
857
00:55:04,012 --> 00:55:05,973
And I was like, "This is so much
858
00:55:06,056 --> 00:55:07,641
"that I could help other people."
859
00:55:07,724 --> 00:55:10,060
I filled my entire car.
860
00:55:11,645 --> 00:55:14,731
I drove around the school parking lot,
861
00:55:14,815 --> 00:55:17,150
flagging people down, asking them,
862
00:55:17,234 --> 00:55:19,152
"Do you want any of this?
863
00:55:19,236 --> 00:55:20,904
"Do you want any of this?"
864
00:55:21,697 --> 00:55:23,240
I remember I came across one girl.
865
00:55:23,323 --> 00:55:26,410
She said she had 13 other siblings.
866
00:55:26,493 --> 00:55:28,495
"Just take it.
867
00:55:28,579 --> 00:55:30,289
"Take whatever you want."
868
00:55:34,042 --> 00:55:37,087
I'm like way proud.
869
00:55:37,171 --> 00:55:40,215
Without her, I don't think
I would have gotten this far.
870
00:55:45,762 --> 00:55:47,431
(TV PLAYING INDISTINCTLY)
871
00:55:55,814 --> 00:55:57,482
(BILL SPEAKING)
872
00:56:21,548 --> 00:56:23,050
JENNA: It's gonna be tough,
873
00:56:23,133 --> 00:56:24,968
but I'm the type of person
874
00:56:25,052 --> 00:56:28,388
that the more challenges
that come my way,
875
00:56:28,472 --> 00:56:30,307
it's like fuel to the fire.
876
00:56:32,768 --> 00:56:34,728
It's made me who I am.
877
00:56:34,811 --> 00:56:36,813
(MELANCHOLY MUSIC PLAYING)
878
00:56:41,026 --> 00:56:42,444
I think you got it.
879
00:56:47,157 --> 00:56:50,160
(LAUGHS) The only thing you can do
880
00:56:50,244 --> 00:56:51,662
is tear things apart.
881
00:56:51,745 --> 00:56:52,913
Yeah.
882
00:56:54,081 --> 00:56:57,751
JENNA: My dad, he still has this heart,
883
00:56:57,835 --> 00:56:59,837
regardless of whatever has happened.
884
00:57:00,838 --> 00:57:03,757
Oh, it is a little bath towel.
885
00:57:03,841 --> 00:57:05,217
It's a fox!
886
00:57:05,843 --> 00:57:07,094
Oh, yeah!
887
00:57:07,177 --> 00:57:09,805
See, we put the baby's head in here.
888
00:57:09,888 --> 00:57:12,975
I like the little boots, they're so cute.
889
00:57:15,602 --> 00:57:18,105
My dad is a lot of the motivation
890
00:57:18,188 --> 00:57:20,858
why I do a lot of the things that I do.
891
00:57:23,402 --> 00:57:26,738
But I know my dad
would be the best grandpa.
892
00:57:33,537 --> 00:57:36,248
ROB JR.: As a caregiver,
you put your head down,
893
00:57:36,331 --> 00:57:38,250
and you do the work.
894
00:57:38,333 --> 00:57:39,543
-There you go.
-Okay.
895
00:57:41,879 --> 00:57:43,714
-All right, we're all set.
-Yeah, okay.
896
00:57:44,923 --> 00:57:46,341
Dad, you watch your step.
897
00:57:46,758 --> 00:57:49,094
You're not really thinking
of your own self-care
898
00:57:49,178 --> 00:57:51,346
and making sure that
you're healthy enough
899
00:57:51,430 --> 00:57:52,806
to take care of your loved one.
900
00:57:52,890 --> 00:57:54,057
All right, there you go.
901
00:57:54,141 --> 00:57:55,475
Yeah, yeah.
902
00:57:55,559 --> 00:57:57,561
CAMILLE: Don't forget
your seat belt now!
903
00:57:57,644 --> 00:58:00,022
But you have to take time for yourself.
904
00:58:00,105 --> 00:58:02,316
And then you have to look for help.
905
00:58:02,399 --> 00:58:03,650
Okay, good.
906
00:58:04,318 --> 00:58:05,903
Okay, will you spray it moving?
907
00:58:05,986 --> 00:58:09,323
Absolutely. Here's what I'll do.
908
00:58:09,740 --> 00:58:11,575
DENA: Okay, well, I'm gonna go
and do the laundry,
909
00:58:11,658 --> 00:58:12,910
and then make the bed.
910
00:58:16,371 --> 00:58:18,540
ROB JR.: One of the things
that Dad would never do with me
911
00:58:18,624 --> 00:58:20,542
is that he would never take a bath.
912
00:58:20,626 --> 00:58:22,961
I couldn't get him to take a shower,
a bath, nothing.
913
00:58:23,045 --> 00:58:25,339
He's like, "I got this.
I'm just washing up."
914
00:58:25,422 --> 00:58:27,841
"Okay, it's been a week now, you know?
915
00:58:27,925 --> 00:58:29,218
"Okay, it's been two weeks now."
916
00:58:29,301 --> 00:58:30,802
He just would not do it.
917
00:58:30,886 --> 00:58:32,804
You're not gonna take a shower today
though, right?
918
00:58:32,888 --> 00:58:33,889
-Right.
-It's tomorrow.
919
00:58:33,972 --> 00:58:35,724
-Just remember, tomorrow, yeah.
-All right, just checking.
920
00:58:35,807 --> 00:58:36,808
Okay.
921
00:58:36,892 --> 00:58:39,061
ROB JR.: So with Dena,
they have it down to a routine.
922
00:58:39,144 --> 00:58:41,104
So now, he gets a shower
three times a week,
923
00:58:41,188 --> 00:58:42,689
and it's just fantastic.
924
00:58:43,315 --> 00:58:45,817
So there's a lot of things
that it helps out with,
925
00:58:45,901 --> 00:58:48,278
having a break is one of the biggest.
926
00:58:52,824 --> 00:58:54,368
You have to take time for yourself.
927
00:58:54,451 --> 00:58:56,495
You have to find resources
that can help you.
928
00:58:56,578 --> 00:58:58,372
You have to get into a routine,
929
00:58:58,455 --> 00:58:59,790
something that works.
930
00:59:01,834 --> 00:59:04,253
Mr. Grier, do you wanna
get back to your table?
931
00:59:06,129 --> 00:59:07,548
CAMILLE: I got your chair, okay?
932
00:59:07,631 --> 00:59:08,924
DENA: Are you gonna take it?
933
00:59:09,007 --> 00:59:10,551
-Yeah.
-It's easier to take it through here.
934
00:59:10,634 --> 00:59:11,635
-Yeah.
-Yeah.
935
00:59:11,718 --> 00:59:14,555
ROB JR.: And if it is reaching out
to an outside agency,
936
00:59:14,638 --> 00:59:16,723
the church or a community organization
937
00:59:16,807 --> 00:59:19,309
that can come into the home,
that's a huge plus.
938
00:59:19,393 --> 00:59:20,561
Yes, it's gonna be tough,
939
00:59:20,644 --> 00:59:22,062
and you want to make sure
that they're vetted,
940
00:59:22,145 --> 00:59:24,982
and that they treat loved one
as well as you are,
941
00:59:25,065 --> 00:59:27,234
but you gotta find some way
to have self-care.
942
00:59:27,317 --> 00:59:28,986
(DENA LAUGHS)
943
00:59:31,238 --> 00:59:33,574
-Good morning, how are you?
-Doing well, how are you?
944
00:59:33,657 --> 00:59:35,742
-Great seeing you again.
-Oh, it's a beautiful morning.
945
00:59:35,826 --> 00:59:37,244
-Yeah, yes.
-Sure is.
946
00:59:37,327 --> 00:59:38,996
Got everything for today?
947
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:41,206
-ROB SR.: Yes.
-Got the key?
948
00:59:41,290 --> 00:59:43,333
-ROB SR.: Got the key. Yeah.
-Okay, good.
949
00:59:47,087 --> 00:59:49,214
ROB JR.: One of the things
that Dad's doing right now
950
00:59:49,298 --> 00:59:51,258
is he's getting physical therapy
and exercise.
951
00:59:51,341 --> 00:59:52,843
Okay, so you got your pills for today?
952
00:59:52,926 --> 00:59:54,344
Got the pills for today.
953
00:59:54,428 --> 00:59:55,804
You have your phone?
954
00:59:55,888 --> 00:59:58,307
I have the phone, yep.
955
00:59:59,016 --> 01:00:02,477
He goes to an adult daycare,
which as we call it, Club Vet.
956
01:00:03,937 --> 01:00:06,231
That gives me time to go run errands,
957
01:00:06,315 --> 01:00:09,067
to go work out, plan the evening meal.
958
01:00:10,068 --> 01:00:11,737
(ROB SR. SPEAKING)
959
01:00:38,430 --> 01:00:40,182
ROB JR.: He said,
"Well, you know, I'm concerned
960
01:00:40,265 --> 01:00:41,975
"because if something happens to you,
961
01:00:42,059 --> 01:00:43,977
"who's gonna take care of me?"
962
01:00:44,061 --> 01:00:46,730
And that just hit me like a brick like...
963
01:00:47,898 --> 01:00:50,234
INTERVIEWER: Who will take care of him
if you're not there?
964
01:00:52,194 --> 01:00:53,904
(SIGHS HEAVILY)
965
01:00:56,281 --> 01:00:58,617
ROB JR.: You wanna live in your home
as long as you can.
966
01:00:58,700 --> 01:01:01,912
But what happens if the person
is not safe in that home?
967
01:01:04,665 --> 01:01:08,085
Honestly, I just try
not to think about that.
968
01:01:08,585 --> 01:01:10,712
It makes me a little upset, so...
969
01:01:14,091 --> 01:01:17,135
We still want to treat my grandfather
the best that we can.
970
01:01:20,931 --> 01:01:22,599
ROB JR.: You know,
I was there for my mother,
971
01:01:22,683 --> 01:01:24,101
and I'm here for my dad.
972
01:01:24,184 --> 01:01:26,520
And so, that's the big thing for me.
973
01:01:26,937 --> 01:01:29,773
I think that I would be more emotional
or feel more guilty
974
01:01:29,857 --> 01:01:31,775
if I wasn't doing anything for them.
975
01:01:32,401 --> 01:01:35,696
If I wasn't here, you know,
giving up my life to help them.
976
01:01:37,531 --> 01:01:39,199
Sixteen candles.
977
01:01:42,369 --> 01:01:45,205
CAMILLE: A lot of times,
it can be a little bit hard,
978
01:01:45,289 --> 01:01:48,041
but I do my best to try
979
01:01:48,125 --> 01:01:50,460
and make sure I'm there.
980
01:01:52,296 --> 01:01:55,257
If you actually really,
truly love that person,
981
01:01:55,340 --> 01:01:56,967
it won't be hard at all.
982
01:01:57,926 --> 01:02:01,430
BOTH: (SINGING) Happy birthday to you
983
01:02:01,513 --> 01:02:04,558
Happy birthday to you
984
01:02:04,641 --> 01:02:08,353
Happy birthday, dear Camille
985
01:02:08,437 --> 01:02:11,815
Happy birthday to you
986
01:02:11,899 --> 01:02:12,900
Thank you.
987
01:02:12,983 --> 01:02:15,569
-And many more
-Yes.
988
01:02:15,652 --> 01:02:17,070
(CAMILLE PUFFS)
989
01:02:17,154 --> 01:02:21,116
-Nice. Yay!
-Oh, my.
990
01:02:30,709 --> 01:02:32,044
You want another one?
991
01:02:33,378 --> 01:02:34,546
(LAUGHS)
992
01:02:38,008 --> 01:02:39,176
(LAUGHS)
993
01:02:48,352 --> 01:02:50,812
KAMAILE: I'm just gonna
put the flowers on the graves.
994
01:02:50,896 --> 01:02:52,314
-Albert. Albert.
-Oh.
995
01:02:52,397 --> 01:02:54,525
Yep, right here.
996
01:02:55,692 --> 01:02:57,361
These are all dead.
997
01:02:57,444 --> 01:02:59,404
-BOBBY: Oh
-10 years.
998
01:03:00,155 --> 01:03:02,449
-BOBBY: Who? I forgot him.
-Mm-hmm.
999
01:03:02,533 --> 01:03:04,243
I don't even know him during...
1000
01:03:05,118 --> 01:03:06,286
Oh, I forgot.
1001
01:03:06,370 --> 01:03:08,705
You... You must've forgot.
1002
01:03:10,958 --> 01:03:12,125
Looks nice, right?
1003
01:03:13,210 --> 01:03:15,170
And then Uncle Robert's on the other side.
1004
01:03:16,922 --> 01:03:19,049
-Do you remember Uncle Robert?
-Yeah.
1005
01:03:20,092 --> 01:03:21,885
(LIGHT-HEARTED GUITAR RIFF PLAYING)
1006
01:03:49,454 --> 01:03:51,915
KAMAILE: My grandpa had a heart attack
a few months ago,
1007
01:03:51,999 --> 01:03:54,334
and he had to get medevaced to Oahu.
1008
01:03:58,755 --> 01:04:01,758
That was not looking very good
for Grandpa.
1009
01:04:04,136 --> 01:04:05,637
We'd figured that was his time.
1010
01:04:10,601 --> 01:04:13,145
But Kaleo goes up to my grandpa's bedside,
1011
01:04:13,228 --> 01:04:15,772
and he says,
"Papa I'm gonna be graduating
1012
01:04:15,856 --> 01:04:17,024
"in a couple of months,
1013
01:04:17,107 --> 01:04:18,859
"and I really want you to be there."
1014
01:04:23,238 --> 01:04:24,740
And that broke my heart.
1015
01:04:28,243 --> 01:04:30,370
KALEO: Doctor is like,
1016
01:04:30,454 --> 01:04:33,707
"Okay, if he goes into resuscitation
or whatever,
1017
01:04:33,790 --> 01:04:35,459
"we're not gonna perform CPR."
1018
01:04:35,542 --> 01:04:38,545
And then I was like,
"If you don't wanna do 'em, I'll do 'em."
1019
01:04:41,715 --> 01:04:46,011
'Cause my grandpa had told me five times.
1020
01:04:46,094 --> 01:04:48,430
I just told him,
"Don't tell me that anymore."
1021
01:04:48,514 --> 01:04:50,641
'Cause I don't like hearing
that kinda stuff.
1022
01:04:53,143 --> 01:04:56,480
INTERVIEWER: Why is it important
to take care of your grandfather?
1023
01:04:56,855 --> 01:04:57,856
KALEO: Hmm...
1024
01:04:58,732 --> 01:05:01,151
Well, it might not be important
to some people,
1025
01:05:01,235 --> 01:05:03,737
but to me, I mean, I value family.
1026
01:05:04,530 --> 01:05:06,532
Kuleana is the Hawaiian word
1027
01:05:06,615 --> 01:05:08,909
for basically, responsibility.
1028
01:05:09,785 --> 01:05:11,578
And sometimes it's responsibility
1029
01:05:11,662 --> 01:05:15,040
that's given to you,
or you just take up onto yourselves.
1030
01:05:19,044 --> 01:05:22,339
I kinda feel like my situation
is a little bit of both.
1031
01:05:25,259 --> 01:05:26,426
I'm overwhelmed.
1032
01:05:27,344 --> 01:05:29,429
I usually take a ride down to the beach.
1033
01:05:33,308 --> 01:05:36,228
The last time my mom and I
were at the beach together,
1034
01:05:36,311 --> 01:05:37,688
that was at Kekaha Beach,
1035
01:05:37,771 --> 01:05:39,898
which is just a couple miles
up the street.
1036
01:05:39,982 --> 01:05:42,109
So I usually go there.
1037
01:05:42,860 --> 01:05:44,695
That's my go-to spot.
1038
01:05:49,032 --> 01:05:50,659
Stuff's gonna happen,
1039
01:05:50,742 --> 01:05:53,245
and you can't control anything.
1040
01:05:54,580 --> 01:05:57,666
The only thing you can control
is how you react to it,
1041
01:05:58,792 --> 01:06:02,129
and everything's gonna be okay.
1042
01:06:02,921 --> 01:06:06,592
Just gotta do what you gotta do.
1043
01:06:07,634 --> 01:06:08,969
Handle your Kuleana.
1044
01:06:11,722 --> 01:06:14,391
INTERVIEWER:
What does caregiving mean, Rocio?
1045
01:06:17,102 --> 01:06:18,520
I wouldn't know.
1046
01:06:23,358 --> 01:06:26,570
To me, those are my vows
to take care of him,
1047
01:06:26,653 --> 01:06:29,072
to take care of each other
in sickness and in health,
1048
01:06:36,496 --> 01:06:38,081
(BRIAN SPEAKING)
1049
01:06:38,874 --> 01:06:40,375
ROCIO: No money, sorry.
1050
01:06:40,459 --> 01:06:41,960
Didn't hit the jackpot.
1051
01:06:44,046 --> 01:06:45,214
Happy anniversary.
1052
01:06:47,299 --> 01:06:50,344
We don't really plan things too far out
1053
01:06:50,427 --> 01:06:52,179
because we never know.
1054
01:06:54,389 --> 01:06:56,892
But I don't see my life without him.
1055
01:07:05,317 --> 01:07:07,444
It's your special day, mami,
you're gonna look pretty.
1056
01:07:07,528 --> 01:07:09,112
-(GROANS) Mom.
-Yes?
1057
01:07:09,196 --> 01:07:11,281
I just wanna hang out at home.
1058
01:07:11,782 --> 01:07:13,700
So you can look beautiful.
1059
01:07:13,784 --> 01:07:15,035
No!
1060
01:07:15,118 --> 01:07:16,954
-Beautiful.
-No!
1061
01:07:20,165 --> 01:07:22,709
ROCIO: Rhianna has been doing great.
1062
01:07:22,793 --> 01:07:26,755
She got Student of the Month
for the month of April,
1063
01:07:26,839 --> 01:07:30,342
so that was... I was...
1064
01:07:30,425 --> 01:07:32,052
you know, basically...
1065
01:07:34,096 --> 01:07:35,264
Crying.
1066
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:38,559
And she's been wanting this
since kindergarten.
1067
01:07:38,642 --> 01:07:43,647
So to finish sixth grade with it
was a blessing.
1068
01:07:49,319 --> 01:07:51,655
She's gotten a lot into drawing.
1069
01:07:52,656 --> 01:07:54,825
So that's helped out a lot.
1070
01:07:55,909 --> 01:07:57,202
I just feel like that's gonna
1071
01:07:57,286 --> 01:08:02,249
be her way of, um, de-stressing.
1072
01:08:02,332 --> 01:08:04,835
This is just a little animal and stars.
1073
01:08:06,795 --> 01:08:07,963
Uh...
1074
01:08:09,548 --> 01:08:11,341
I don't know what's this one.
1075
01:08:13,677 --> 01:08:15,679
ROCIO: Tough times
make you tougher, right?
1076
01:08:18,890 --> 01:08:23,312
Unfortunately, that's what
she had to go through.
1077
01:08:24,270 --> 01:08:26,773
But I hope and I pray
1078
01:08:26,857 --> 01:08:29,651
that she will be a better individual
when she grows up
1079
01:08:29,734 --> 01:08:32,154
and that she'll see with that same heart.
1080
01:08:38,452 --> 01:08:39,870
INTERVIEWER:
How do you remain so strong?
1081
01:08:42,122 --> 01:08:43,874
-Humor?
-Humor.
1082
01:08:44,707 --> 01:08:47,502
Make each other laugh,
make fun of each other,
1083
01:08:47,586 --> 01:08:50,421
pick at each other sometimes.
I mean, that's the best medicine.
1084
01:09:02,475 --> 01:09:04,560
With his condition, you never know.
1085
01:09:05,187 --> 01:09:08,941
So it's more of a comfort for us
1086
01:09:09,024 --> 01:09:11,443
to just focus on today.
1087
01:09:23,580 --> 01:09:25,707
-Can you help me?
-I'd do it again.
1088
01:09:27,584 --> 01:09:29,336
-There!
-Got it?
1089
01:09:29,419 --> 01:09:30,796
ROCIO: He got his AS.
1090
01:09:34,383 --> 01:09:37,094
He wants to continue
mechanical engineering.
1091
01:09:38,595 --> 01:09:39,888
I see his strength,
1092
01:09:39,971 --> 01:09:42,515
so I thrive from that,
1093
01:09:42,599 --> 01:09:44,725
and that gives me the strength, you know,
1094
01:09:44,810 --> 01:09:47,270
because if he can be strong, why can't I?
1095
01:09:48,272 --> 01:09:51,859
So I just wanna say that
I'm very, very proud of you,
1096
01:09:51,942 --> 01:09:54,027
and we love you and I love you.
1097
01:09:54,945 --> 01:09:57,281
And we have to be strong for our daughter.
1098
01:09:59,283 --> 01:10:01,994
You're here, I'm here.
1099
01:10:02,077 --> 01:10:04,746
We got our daughter, and we're together.
1100
01:10:06,665 --> 01:10:08,667
(NOSTALGIC MUSIC PLAYING)
1101
01:10:24,516 --> 01:10:26,643
JESSICA: Pain is still our biggest issue.
1102
01:10:28,395 --> 01:10:29,730
Today, on a scale of 1 to 10,
1103
01:10:29,813 --> 01:10:31,648
he'll probably be hitting
close to seven, eight.
1104
01:10:33,734 --> 01:10:35,736
We don't know how long
we're gonna be doing this,
1105
01:10:35,819 --> 01:10:38,906
because Chaz and all his guys,
they're breaking records
1106
01:10:40,908 --> 01:10:42,242
every day they're alive.
1107
01:10:43,243 --> 01:10:46,330
Because in Vietnam,
he would have died on the battlefield.
1108
01:10:47,122 --> 01:10:50,167
Desert Storm, he would have died
in the helicopter.
1109
01:10:53,170 --> 01:10:55,297
Chaz stepped on a 40-pound bomb,
1110
01:10:56,006 --> 01:10:57,841
and they got him home.
1111
01:11:01,178 --> 01:11:03,430
Every day he's alive,
he's breaking records.
1112
01:11:03,514 --> 01:11:07,017
And so, let's hope
he breaks 40 years of records.
1113
01:11:08,185 --> 01:11:09,937
INTERVIEWER: Do you have a hero?
1114
01:11:10,020 --> 01:11:11,188
My dad.
1115
01:11:14,358 --> 01:11:16,735
I'm getting emotional. (SOBS)
1116
01:11:19,738 --> 01:11:20,822
(SNIFFLES)
1117
01:11:22,824 --> 01:11:26,203
He never complains
even though he's in pain every day.
1118
01:11:27,412 --> 01:11:29,164
And he's always making sure
1119
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,708
that we get taken care of,
1120
01:11:32,584 --> 01:11:34,086
and that we're always happy.
1121
01:11:35,712 --> 01:11:37,422
(DANCE MUSIC PLAYS ON RECORDING)
1122
01:11:37,506 --> 01:11:40,175
JESSICA: The silver lining is
these girls get to have their family.
1123
01:11:45,222 --> 01:11:47,683
He was supposed to retire this year.
1124
01:11:47,766 --> 01:11:49,810
So this was his 20th year, this year.
1125
01:11:49,893 --> 01:11:51,895
So they would just now have a dad.
1126
01:11:53,188 --> 01:11:55,816
He was just literally this guy
who came in every once in a while,
1127
01:11:55,899 --> 01:11:58,902
and instead, they got to have a dad
seven years ago.
1128
01:12:00,153 --> 01:12:02,614
That thing is the loudest thing on Earth.
1129
01:12:02,698 --> 01:12:04,408
That's like a lot of things like IUD...
1130
01:12:04,491 --> 01:12:07,536
-IUD?
-(ALL LAUGHING)
1131
01:12:07,619 --> 01:12:09,121
IED, my bad.
1132
01:12:09,204 --> 01:12:11,665
JESSICA: It's just crazy to think
we have two high-schoolers.
1133
01:12:11,748 --> 01:12:14,835
Crazy to think that they're
in that last phase of childhood.
1134
01:12:16,587 --> 01:12:18,505
(WASHING MACHINE BEEPING)
1135
01:12:18,589 --> 01:12:21,925
DERYN: We went and visited
Georgia a few days ago.
1136
01:12:22,009 --> 01:12:25,846
And while we were there,
we decided to tour SCAD.
1137
01:12:26,805 --> 01:12:28,098
And, yeah,
1138
01:12:28,182 --> 01:12:30,392
-and I thought it was pretty cool.
-WOMAN: Yeah?
1139
01:12:30,475 --> 01:12:32,352
JESSICA: We're not gonna have
our family of four.
1140
01:12:32,769 --> 01:12:34,188
I think that's gonna be the hardest part.
1141
01:12:34,271 --> 01:12:35,939
(INDISTINCT CONVERSATION)
1142
01:12:36,440 --> 01:12:38,901
The best part is
they know the world is big.
1143
01:12:38,984 --> 01:12:41,153
It's not just about them.
1144
01:12:41,236 --> 01:12:43,155
I think that's a huge lesson.
1145
01:12:46,325 --> 01:12:48,869
I think that they have the ability
to look beyond what they know,
1146
01:12:48,952 --> 01:12:50,621
and they have compassion for that.
1147
01:12:50,704 --> 01:12:52,789
They won't rush to judgment.
1148
01:12:53,874 --> 01:12:57,377
They know that
there might be another story.
1149
01:13:04,384 --> 01:13:08,055
And we're off. (LAUGHS)
All right.
1150
01:13:08,138 --> 01:13:10,140
(HOPEFUL MUSIC PLAYING)
1151
01:13:19,983 --> 01:13:21,318
Yeah.
1152
01:13:46,593 --> 01:13:48,554
(UPLIFTING MUSIC PLAYING)
1153
01:13:51,181 --> 01:13:52,182
My name is Deryn.
1154
01:13:52,266 --> 01:13:54,101
My name is Jenna Ploof.
1155
01:13:54,184 --> 01:13:55,978
(LAUGHING) Hi!
1156
01:13:59,565 --> 01:14:00,941
My name is Camille Grier.
1157
01:14:01,024 --> 01:14:04,695
And you spell it, C-A-M-I-L-L-E.
1158
01:14:04,778 --> 01:14:07,656
K-A-M-A-I-L-E.
1159
01:14:07,739 --> 01:14:09,408
(UPLIFTING MUSIC CONTINUES)
1160
01:14:15,706 --> 01:14:18,292
I'm 11, I will turn 12.
1161
01:14:18,375 --> 01:14:21,044
I am 15, actually about to be 16.
1162
01:14:21,128 --> 01:14:22,963
-INTERVIEWER: Well, thank you, my friend.
-Anytime.
1163
01:14:31,388 --> 01:14:34,641
MALE SINGER: (SINGING)
If you're broken, feeling weary
1164
01:14:35,350 --> 01:14:40,439
So tired from the fight
1165
01:14:42,941 --> 01:14:46,361
If your world is slowly sinking
1166
01:14:46,945 --> 01:14:52,451
So hard to see the light
1167
01:14:54,453 --> 01:14:56,955
If you can't find the strength
1168
01:14:57,039 --> 01:14:59,875
To go on another day
1169
01:15:00,667 --> 01:15:04,087
And your back's against the wall
1170
01:15:05,797 --> 01:15:08,509
I'll walk through every fire
1171
01:15:08,592 --> 01:15:11,345
Stand tall there right beside ya
1172
01:15:12,262 --> 01:15:14,806
Be the one to get you through
1173
01:15:14,890 --> 01:15:17,184
Yeah, I'll face the lion
1174
01:15:17,267 --> 01:15:20,354
Take on every giant
1175
01:15:21,104 --> 01:15:23,941
There's nothing I wouldn't do
1176
01:15:24,399 --> 01:15:26,026
I'd go to war for you
1177
01:15:26,109 --> 01:15:28,695
I'll walk through every fire
1178
01:15:28,779 --> 01:15:30,948
Stand tall there right beside ya
1179
01:15:31,031 --> 01:15:32,199
Go to war for you
1180
01:15:32,282 --> 01:15:34,743
Yeah, I'll face the lion
1181
01:15:34,826 --> 01:15:37,788
Take on every giant
1182
01:15:38,539 --> 01:15:41,208
There's nothing I wouldn't do
1183
01:15:43,794 --> 01:15:47,130
It's okay to need somebody
1184
01:15:47,673 --> 01:15:53,011
To hold you in the dark
1185
01:15:56,181 --> 01:15:58,183
(ENCHANTING MUSIC PLAYING)
1186
01:16:20,038 --> 01:16:22,040
(LIGHT-HEARTED
ORCHESTRAL MUSIC PLAYING)